Friday, August 19, 2005

My thoughts om Lisa's cooking

Hey there, I just LOVE a wife that can cook, especially some good comfort food!!!! For those of you who know me well, you know that I LOVE to cook. Over here though, it is not always the culturally acceptable thing for me to be cooking. So when we came, I told Lisa that I would try to back off, at least for lunches, during the week (for most dinners we eat sandwiches or something VERY lite). I have tried to not make too many suggestive comments, and actually have not made and suggestions in a while. This is because my wife has turned into a GREAT cook, her Grandmother would be proud! This is saying a lot as we have almost NO quick fix items here, other then what we get from home, so everything just about has to be made from scratch. She has come across some great recipes, and has played with the ingredients as if I would, and made them her own. One of the best things she does for me though, is make some good; old-fashioned comfort food. Some of these I had growing up, others are just standard things, but they remind me of home, which I need from time-to-time. Here are a list of some of my favorite comfort foods that she makes.
  • chocolate-chip cookies (although I do not get them as much as I would like)
  • Fried chicken
  • Chicken & dumplings (her Grandmother's recipe)
  • Sour eggs (something I grew up with-a cream sauce with vinegar & mustard & hard boiled eggs over boiled potatoes)
  • Chicken with a soy sauce & water sauce with rice something else I grew up with)
  • Round steak (something her mother makes- I am not sure which is better...They both are AWESOME!!!)
  • Chicken nuggets (not the store bought kind either!!!)
  • banana bread/muffins

New comfort foods/:
  • Texas hash (ground beef, tomatoes & rice)
  • Curried ground beef (basically a beef stew)
  • tamale pie
There are others as well, I just can not think of them now. Remember, we are talking about all of these being made from scratch!!! God has definitely blessed me with a wonderful wife!!!! I LOVE HER AND HER COOKING!!!!!!!!!

Monday, August 15, 2005

My ramblings

Hello there, I will apologize in advance for any rambling that I will do. I will try to keep this at least somewhat coherent. I am SOOO tired today, mentally, physically and physiologically as well. On the field, we talk about hitting the wall, and there are several walls we hit. The first and biggest is the one that everyone hits 6 months after arriving on the field. Of course I hit that last year, 3 months after my father's funeral, while living in the village. While last year had MANY struggles for us/me, through the prayers and support of our family & friends, I made it through. Now we have been in the city for all this year and have been able to focus in on our new assignment, and had our first volunteer team from FL. Come out. Those things have been a BIG blessing for us and has helped to give us a strong sense of purpose out here.


But lately, the last week or so has been a little tiring. After the team left, we were set-up to hold some English classes at the church that we worked with, for the neighborhood students. Lisa and I prepared for a few days and went up to the church on Monday the 8th, only to have no one show up, no even from the church. We went back each morning for 3 days, just in case, and STILL no one. So we decided to scrap the teaching for the first 2 weeks. Now I was able to meet the director of a local community center and make plans to use the center for the next set of 2 weeks. I can't help but wander if the church has done some of the follow up that they were supposed to do. Several of the youth from the church are supposed to be doing some follow up from after the camp and while doing so, many said that they would remind people about the classes. Oh, well, pray for the next round, which starts on the 22nd and runs through the 2nd of Sept.


A large part of my tiredness has more to do with just life here. On Thursday last week, they started to build on a new room to the studio that is below us. While working, they hit the water line and had to turn off the water. Now we have a LARGE water tank on our roof, for our house only, we used all of that by the end of the day with laundry and other uses. Then on Fri, we found out that the water pressure was so low that our tank was not re-filled, and was bad enough that we had just a trickle, from one faucet all day. Then, that afternoon, we found out that the city was planning on shutting off the water to ALL the city, to work on some pipes. So now we spend the rest of the evening trying to fill up a barrel with water, so that we can have something. I woke up EARLY both Fri. and Saturday to make sure that we had at least some water to wash with, flush the toilet and bath with. After spending most of the evening on Friday and all morning on Saturday, by 3pm, we had about 1 barrel filled.


We did have a good evening though. The President, and his wife (Jerry and Bobbie Rankin), of the IMB came out for a visit. Several of us from our office, Senegal wide, came together to have a dinner and fellowship. As it turns out, we ate Senegalize style, from a common platter, and the wife of the president, Bobbie, ended up sharing our platter with us. I do have to say that I am VERY impressed with them both. They are just normal people that actually would love to be on the field again. They are VERY personable and friendly.


Sunday, yesterday, was a LONG day for me though. Lisa, and the other ladies, met with Bobbie for a time of prayer and worship. So I had another missionary father of 2 small children, friends of Pape, come over for time together. As it turns out, we had a "typical" Sunday here, electricity wise. On top of little to no water pressure, at about 9 am the power went out. It normally does this each Sunday lately, fortunately last week it was out all day, until about 4pm. I say fortunately because that helped me have an idea of how long we would be without power. Well, I spent the morning with 3 children, under the age of 2 1/2 years, playing and helping make sure they share. Since the power situation was what it was, when Lisa came home, at about noon, we went to a restaurant to eat. While waiting on the food, I went outside and played with Pape on the play area, in the heat again. After returning home, we all laid down for our afternoon nap, in a slightly hot house, there was a slight breeze. Lisa had her baby shower that afternoon, and left before Pape woke up. I played with him though for about an hour, reading and wrestling around, getting hot and sweaty, after he woke up. We then went to where Lisa was, to help get the stuff home, but also because I figured they had electricity, which meant fans!!! We stayed there for a while and all returned home at @ 5:15pm, and PTL, the power had returned!!!!


We did have a chance to talk to Lisa's mother that night on Yahoo, which we try to do every Sunday. She seemed a little tired as well though, we seemed to have audio issues from time to time and Pape did not always want to stay in the living room. Since it was Lisa's mom, I tried to keep up with him and try to keep him in the room with us, so Grandma could see him, and to save the rest of the house. We also were able to do what we try to do every Sunday night as well. After Pape goes to sleep, I make a big bowl of popcorn and we watch a movie, we call it "date night."


So after dealing with the water issue on top of the power issue on top of chasing after a 2 year old all weekend, I am tired. There were other issues as well, but this post has become quite long! But a BIG PRAISE; PAPE TURNS 2 TODAY!!!!! We will be having a party at my Senegalize mother's home. Her daughters, my sisters, are here now helping get things made.

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

A thought for today

An interesting thing has been in my mind lately. Here, after saying that you will see someone later, do something later or just reference something to be done in the future in general, it is followed by "EnshAllah" or " Bu soobee Boroom Bi," both of which mean " If God wills it." One quickly gets the idea that most that say it, even the Christains, mean it. They tend to have a better view that all we do is guided by God and that NOTHING happens by accident. The Bible even tells us to have this mind set in James 4:13-15. God is teaching me everyday, more and more that I am NOT in controll as much as I thought I was.

Who is in controll of your life? When things don't go the way you think they should, do you get frustrated and upset, or do you just say, "Oh, well, God id in controll and not me!" Try to at least think, if not say, "If God wills it" next time you talk about what the future hold for you. It will change your outlook on life.

Monday, August 08, 2005

From Rich

Hey there, we want to use this to share with you what our daily lives are like here and some of our thoughts from here as well. We also want to hear from you as well, so leave comments on things and we will try to answer any questions that you might have. I will be trying to get a blog set-up for Lisa as well soon, but for now this is for both of us.